Wednesday, May 15, 2013

19. The 40 Year Old Virgo

Top Ten Reasons I am a Good Woman to Date:

10. I don't have any children that my life has to revolve around, but I love kids and I'm very happy if you have some...or not. Additionally, my "biological clock" isn't ticking; I'm not looking for someone to make a baby with. However, nothing is ruled out. I am still viable. If we decide we want  a baby, I can make one, or we can adopt. I don't have any attachment to either outcome, since I think it's a choice two people have to make together.

9. I am financially responsible and stable. I have my own resources and I am not looking for a man as my means of support.

8. I Love to Cook and I am Good at it. Take me out to dinner occasionally, but cook with me in the kitchen regularly. We will eat well and healthy.

7. I am aging very well. I look ten years younger than my age. Plus, I understand that in order for me to continue enjoying youth and vitality as long as possible, I have to take care of my body. So, I eat right, exercise, and take care of myself.

6. I like my life. I am emotionally intelligent, mature, and stable, not depressed and looking for a man to make my life perfect. I won't be depending on you to fulfill my every waking moment. I'd enjoy spending a lot of time with a partner, but I'm sure that we'd both have some things that we like to do alone or with friends. I won't be upset or jealous that you want a boy's night or a regular basketball game or something like that. We both had lives before we met, I expect we'll enjoy keeping our relationships and social activities as well as co-creating some together. Not co-dependent, but inter-dependent.

5. In fact, I won't get upset or jealous at all. I'm confident enough to speak my mind. If I need to communicate with you, I will. I trust that you will act appropriately when we are not together, and if you don't, I won't make a scene or a fuss...I'll just say, Thanks, and good luck elsewhere. On the flip side, I will always conduct myself in a way that reflects positively on you and our relationship.

4. If we decide to date, it will be because I like you the way you are. Please, make sure you represent yourself honestly, so I can fall in love with your true self. Then you can be sure I won't be trying to change anything about you. If you want help, I'll support you, and I'll encourage you to achieve your goals and dreams. Isn't that what partners are supposed to do?

3. I don't have any crazy exes or crazy family that will disturb our bliss. I only have a sister in Texas and we get along very well. I have two cats and a dog that are my fur children. There will never be an issue as to whose family we will visit because I don't have any. There's no Mom to impress or Dad to worry about, and no aging parents or grandparents to consider.

2. I am open minded, intelligent, and worldly. I have travelled to over eighty countries and have a genius-level IQ. I am educated and erudite. I am a good conversationalist and will keep you interested. I will be a good companion as we journey through life. Professionally, I have been a massage therapist for ten years and I am studying to become a nurse, so I have a good skill set. Personally, I want to enjoy intimacy with you on a regular and frequent basis.

1. Most important: I am fun! I have a positive attitude and I have a good time no matter what I am doing. I have a wide variety of interests and I am very versatile. I can get down and dirty, but I clean up well. I enjoy going out, but I look forward to quality time at home with you. I expect we won't have 100% in common, so I will enjoy being exposed to your favorite things much like I will enjoy sharing mine with you. Whatever it is, I will look forward to having a good time with you.

I just want to find a nice available man +/- 5 years of my age who can appreciate the benefits of everything I bring to the table and who bring a few bennies of his own. Bring it on, dudes!

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